Now, some of you
may have never had this thought or may have been a "Sports Mom" or parent since day one. Don’t get me wrong, I did allow my son to
play sports at recess and gym class. I
just never signed him up for a team sport before. My Dad, who had hemophilia would warn me
about the target joint bleeds and joint damage that could result from playing
sports. He would even have me grab his
knee while he bent it and I could feel the clicking and roughness of the knee
as he moved it back and forth. I grew up
watching him deal with chronic daily pain where just getting up to go to the
bathroom was a battle. Thinking about it
now I get chills, so I was “scared straight”.
Also, 11 years ago they were not pushing kids with hemophilia to play
sports…stay active…but not team sports.
The only sports I “knew” was Football, Baseball and Basketball and they
were all rated 2.5 or higher on the National
Hemophilia Sports Rating by Activity Chart, so being a “Sports Mom” was not
something I imagined in my future.
So, this
Hemophilia Awareness Month has been eye opening for me. I am aware that my father’s point of view
about having hemophilia and playing sports was based on him not having factor
available at home or being raised on prophy and wanting to protect his
grandsons from the pain he experienced daily.
I am aware that yes playing sports we are taking a risk, but if I keep them
on their prophy regimen (like the prophyholic I am) and plan it around practice and games I can reduce that
risk. I am aware that I have to teach my
sons that we are taking a risk of playing an organized sport, but they have to
learn to listen to their body for warning signs of a bleed, which is hard
because you don’t know the “normal” aches from a beginning of a bleed. My son has told me he is paranoid about getting a bleed when he's playing basketball so he tries not to play as hard or get too rough. It’s hard to tell him he shouldn’t be scared of a bleed when I’m on the sidelines just as afraid. I’m hoping over time that fear will fade and praying at the same time he never has a joint bleed or develops a target joint bleed. I am aware that they are having fun and that’s what living your life is about.
It’s only been two weeks since I’ve become a “Sports Mom” and it’s exciting! Laithan is doing great at T-ball. He throws the ball so good the other parents joked, “We need to see his birth certificate to confirm he’s only 4!” His twin sister, Layla, is getting over her shyness a little and slapping hands with the other parents. The both of them are really enjoying learning how to play T-ball and being out with other kids.
Marques is loving being on a Basketball team. He wanted to play because his friends were
playing, but they didn’t get on the same team so I thought he would lose interest. The opposite has happened. He can’t wait to get to practice. It’s almost like letting a caged bird out for
the first time. He said to me the next
morning after the first practice, “Maybe I could be the first hemophilia NBA
player?!” I just said, “Maybe”.
I even see a new light in my husband’s eye
watching his boys play a team sport. He
even decided to become the Assistant Coach for Marques Basketball Team.
This is a new
beginning for us. I’m ready to invest in
some “B-Ball Mom” t-shirts! I know I had
fun shopping for all the equipment and sneakers. I tried not to go too crazy getting the twins
T-ball sports bags, but I may have to splurge in getting them baseball shirts
with their names. I know….. the newness
will wear off…. and the running around trying to get everyone to practices and giving
up my quiet Saturdays because of games will be taxing, but that’s the life of a
“Sports Mom”, lol!
Hopefully, you won't get too tired of me sharing my pictures on Prophyholic Facebook page!
Have you allowed your child to play a Team Sport rated 2.00 or higher activity rating? Has the fear of your child
getting hurt diminished?
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